Exploring Feeling & Emotions

Updated: Nov 25

I often share these exploring feelings and emotions resources with clients -- I hope you find them helpful!

Transforming Feelings Into Words: Multimamory Podcast Episode 348 a useful exploration and strategies for putting feelings into words from the brilliant Multiamory crew!

Anger: This Jungian Life Podcast Anger is a core human emotion. Newborns express instinctual cries of protest, and many a mythological god has wreaked archetypal havoc. Cultural norms around anger range from keeping a stiff upper lip to highly extraverted forms of expression. Anger, like other emotions, is a source of information: it tells us when we feel violated in some way, and is linked to self-preservation. If fiery feelings can be understood first as a call to containment and self-reflection rather than reaction, it can fuel strategic thinking, emotional maturation and productive action. See also The Wisdom of Anger article.

Carl Jung recognised "Shame is a soul eating emotion." And Bell Hooks “Shame about being hurt often has its origin in childhood. And it is then that many of us first learn that it is a virtue to be silent about pain. ... As more people have found the courage to break through shame and speak about woundedness in their lives, we are now subjected to a mean-spirited cultural response, where all talk of woundedness is mocked. The belittling of anyone’s attempt to make a context within which they were wounded, were made a victim, is a form of shaming.” Understanding our experiences and how we have learnt to embody Shame is often a core exploration in therapy work. In Listening to Shame Brene Brown explores how Shame is an unspoken epidemic, the secret behind many forms of broken behaviour and what can happen when people confront their shame head-on.

A Feelings Wheel can help us put words to emotions and care for our wellbeing. At times feelings may be murky, elusive, and confusing. Sometimes big and intense and other times quiet, buried away and hard to recognize. While words may fall short in fully capturing the essence of emotion, they serve to identify and then communicate our experience:

Plutchik’s Wheel of Emotions The eight sectors are designed to indicate that there are eight primary emotions: anger, anticipation, joy, trust, fear, surprise, sadness and disgust. Each primary emotion has a polar opposite. These are based on the physiological reaction each emotion evokes: